Old habits die hard

Bloody family, they can be your biggest danger, there actions and associates can effect your future and even your recovery, for surely you have a duty to protect your family especially your children.

My daughter tried, bless her, for me not to find out about a certain mess that’s unfolded involving her fool of an ex-boyfriend and some illegal activities.

I’ll keep the subject vague as not to antagonise or compromise the wrong people, but her ex-boyfriend such a liar, such a fool, such a mouth, he’s tried to be the big man, the pretend gangster and it’s all gone wrong. He and his partner in idiocy have lost their goods as it’s been taxed and now their in debt to people who funded this project.

People you apparently don’t want to be in debt to.

So out comes the blame thrower, the fool’s foolish partner has pointed the finger of blame at my daughter though she left her ex in April and knew nothing of their activities. I know they’re both panicking but he’s being threatening to my daughter and I can’t allow that can I?

So what to do about this? First reaction is obvious, attack them both, show them the errors of their ways. But the ex-boyfriend has gone into hiding (the coward that he is) and the partner is not very rational at the moment. I also don’t know where he is.

So I calmed my daughter down and assured her these threats are idle, I’ve told her they’re just throwing a fit because it’s all gone wrong and it’s easier to blame anyone than take responsibility for your own foolish actions. I’ve advised her to see how things develop and keep me informed.

I really could do without all this and I hope not to see her ex-boyfriend again as I’m concerned about my possible reaction to meeting him. Part of me wants to bump into him, that hateful revengeful side of me, my fear now is at what cost to me would my reaction be, family eh?